Paul Cuddihy’s Guest Post

Paul Cuddihy

My friend and fellow writer Paul Cuddihy, author of Saints and Sinners and The Hunted, has kindly agreed to write a guest post for me. Those of you who know me are aware of my impossible dream of writing songs, in spite of not having a note in my head, and how much I admire songwriters: well, Paul is also a musician, and has written three songs as a soundtrack for The Hunted. I think it’s just amazing to be able to create a soundtrack for your own books. Here you can listen to the Ballad of Dan Foley, and here you can read the first chapter of The Hunted.
These are Paul’s words on love of books, family life and how we have to accept our children’s passions instead of imposing our own:

HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR FAVOURITE CHILD

I have three children, so how do I choose my favourite? Well, for starters, I can discount the one who doesn’t read my books! I’ve written two novels – Saints and Sinners and The Hunted – and my 17-year-old son, Andrew, hasn’t read either of them.

When Saints and Sinners came out, I gave him and my daughters, Louise, who is 24, and Rebecca, who is 19, a copy, each with a personal message. Rebecca is the book lover among them, so she read it right away. Louise reads occasionally, but she did make an effort to read my book. About two weeks after Andrew got his copy, he came downstairs and declared, ‘Dad, I’m not going to read your book. Books aren’t for me. I’ll just wait until the film comes out!’

He’s been as true as his word, and the copy sits in pristine condition at the side of his bed, along with a copy of my next novel, The Hunted, which I gave him last year. It’s not that he doesn’t read – he reads newspapers and football magazines all the time, but it does appear, as he says, that books are not for him.

I often wonder why that is. All three of them have been brought up in a house where there are loads of books – thousands of them. When they were younger, my wife and I would read them stories every night, we took them regularly to the library, and we always encouraged them to read. Yet, they all have different attitudes to, and relationships with books.

That is due, in no small part, to their personalities. I believe that some of us just love books and reading more than others. For me, a life without TV or computers or the Internet would be fine – at times, I think it would be like heaven! – but a world without books. That’s unthinkable.

Of course, the fact that it’s my son who doesn’t read books means I’ve thought often about gender and reading. It’s accepted that teenage boys don’t read as much as teenage girls, and even the ones who do are less likely to talk about it with their friends. It’s not seen as a ‘cool’ thing to do, and how to get boys reading more is a problem which has vexed parents and teachers for many years – probably more so now than ever, with so many other things competing for their attention.

Writers targeting that readership will have chosen their subject matter accordingly and teachers will have chosen what they think is a relevant book; it might be a book with a sports theme, or some sort of action-adventure story. However, it might also be worth them bearing in mind that teenage boys love The Inbetweeners, which tells you everything you need to know about their interests; in the words of the legendary TV character, Father Jack Hackett … ‘Feck! Girls! Drink!’ (Not necessarily in that order!)

To an extent, however, we have to accept the reality of boys’ teenage apathy to reading – for me, it’s a bit like trying to encourage my son to play Subbuteo when he’s got FIFA 2012 on his Xbox.

But having grown up in a house full of books, where other members of the family read, and where his dad writes books, I know that there is a reading seed growing there which one day will hopefully blossom (All very poetic, I know. It’s more likely that he’ll end up with a girlfriend who likes books and he’ll start reading just to impress her!) Either way, the end result is a good one!

And you don’t have to worry… I don’t have a favourite child. They each make me proud in different ways. It could be seeing a copy of The Grapes of Wrath lying at the side of Rebecca’s bed. It might be Louise letting me know she was telling people in work that she was reading her dad’s book, or it could be standing on the touchline of a public park on a freezing cold Sunday morning watching Andrew playing football.

Or maybe it’s all five of us sitting at the dinner table, talking and laughing and joking with each other, without the subject of books being brought up, and I’m thinking that my children are now adults who have turned out to be nice people who I like… certainly, that’s my greatest achievement, more than any books I have written or that they might read.

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